Summer Contouring Face Off

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Summer is officially here and, apparently, not going away anytime soon (Evian spray, please!). Here in the Inland Empire, where temps can be in the triple digits to 80’s-90’s in the evening, that still doesn’t mean I want to go naked makeup-wise when it comes to an evening out on the town. Enter the world of contour. Who doesn’t know about it by now? (Thanks, Kim Kardashian!)

I’ve tried the very popular Tarte Park Avenue Princess face sculptor. It’s a simple crayon-looking stick that literally slims your face down and focuses the spotlight on your cheekbones (or anywhere else you want to accentuate). When you put it on (or any contouring product for that matter), it looks completely ridiculous – until you rub it in and follow with a bit of bronzing powder (I like Nars’ bronzing powder). Then, all of a sudden, you can see the effect and you think to yourself, “How did I ever live without this product?”

My issue with the Tarte Park Avenue Princess was its value for the money (duh; knowing me) – it seemed like I went through it so quickly. I was visiting Ulta more frequently than I was getting my nails done. The product just didn’t seem to last for me. And then I was at Sephora, and I saw this awesome two for one contour and highlight stick from Nars. I decided to try it – – and…

It’s a total winner! I have had it for six months and it doesn’t break off, or send me searching for the nearest beauty store when I’m on vacation. I know there will be people who don’t agree with my opinion, but it’s what has worked for me. I feel like Nars doesn’t get the credit they deserve for their innovative products.

What’s your fave contouring product?

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You Don’t Coupon, You Say?

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I recently was discussing the art of couponing with a coworker. Mind you, there have been many instances (holiday shopping, food stockpiling, Ulta beauty makeup runs) where my coupons have saved me more than a pretty penny. Most notably, staying in a 4 star Hawaiian hotel for $500 total on my hubby’s milestone birthday back in October thanks to the suckers.

So when she replied, “Yeah, I just don’t think I have time for couponing”, I was in complete and utter shock. Okay, you are essentially saying you don’t have time to save on things you already buy — so you are okay paying marked-up prices? This chick has Louis Vuitton galore! I get that Louis Vuitton is never going on sale, but I still stockpile gift cards for places that sell them — love buying one of their bags for the same price as a Kate Spade. Or better yet, why not put the money aside for luxury because you saved with a coupon buying every day items at Target using their Cartwheel app?

The same argument can be made for working out (and boy, a lot of people make this statement around the holidays that they just don’t have time). Really? You don’t have time to make sure you don’t split the last button on your jeans? Or to justify the extra helping of pie you ate for dessert? Sorry, that argument doesn’t work for me.

But if you are going to skimp on saving money by paying full price for al your stuff, can you drop me off the coupons you don’t plan on using? Several of my friends already do. But don’t hate on my saving money.

Happy Holidays!

Spring Faceoff: Best/Worst Foundation for Your Face

Happy Spring, everyone! Where did winter go? Oh well, on to Easter & Passover.

I had LASIK eye surgery in January (more about that in an upcoming post, I promise). While there were many (rather annoying but necessary) restrictions put in place for the first week or so (e.g., no pools, hot tubs (FOR A MONTH!), no makeup (FOR A WEEK!), I considered it a minor nuisance compared to glasses (which my husband was literally SICK of hearing me complain about since we met).

When I did get back to finally being able to apply my face again for a night on the town, I opened my makeup bag to use the last of my Urban Decay Foundation and (gasp) horrors almighty, the dang thing had spilled ALL OVER MY MAKEUP BAG!! And I hadn’t even traveled anywhere! While I LOVE Urban Decay Eye Palettes and eye shadows in general, this foundation really disappointed! It was thin, I had to use a ton to get anywhere near full coverage, and just never did it for me. (Photo Credit: Ulta.com)

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57 tissues, 2 towelettes and 3 makeup wipes later, I gave up and finally tossed the remainder of the foundation in the trash. And thus began my love affair with Christian Dior Airflash Foundation. Yes, it’s expensive (60 bucks), only available at Sephora; and no, I can’t use a coupon a la Ulta.

I spray a little on my face, and boy, does it go a long way! It’s lightweight, but gives me all-nighter, I’m gonna go to Vegas and party til 5 AM, wearability. My skin can breathe! And best of all, it’s a clean container. No mess in my makeup bag means less fears of explosions each time I get ready for a night on the town. (Photo credit: Sephora)

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Sorry Urban Decay, but Christian Dior is the winner on this Spring Foundation Faceoff – what are your thoughts? Urban Decay vs. Christian Dior — ready, sound off!

XOXO

The SocalSocialite

Dear Sephora, What Happened to Your Hair (section)?

I guess getting older is part of life; and along with it comes an adjustment – to life, to your energy level, and of course, to retail stores deciding to change the brands and styles they carry.

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Along with this revelation, Sephora has proved to be no exception. This past weekend they were running a 2x points on skincare promotion, so naturally, I stopped by to pick up some of the goodies I mentioned in my last post.

I decided to seek out a new leave-in conditioner (I love Fekkai) and was shocked when I was greeted with only a handful of options – and none of the ones I’m used to seeing. What the $%%##? Fekkai is nowhere to be found! The lady informed me they no longer carry that brand. Why? Is it too low-scale for their classy hair products?

I’m the kind of girl that carries a separate container in my purse chock-full of coupons. I love deals. But I also love luxury and prefer to dabble in both.

Is Sephora getting too snobby and exclusive with their haircare products? Or am I just getting too old and stuck in my ways? What do you think?

XOXO

TheSocalSocialite

Clean Beauty I Want on a Wednesday…

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Happy 2015 to you all! Sorry I’ve been on a writing hiatus lately with the holidays and end of year festivities.

Did you make any New Year’s Resolutions? I sure did. Continue my yoga and pilates regimen, and continue eating cleaner! What’s helped me stick to my resolution is following a ton of yoga and clean eating inspired Instagrams.

Along with clean eating, I’m getting into products lately that clean my face and leave it ready for a good night’s rest, such as Murad’s Hydrating Toner – this stuff doesn’t burn my face and it gets the job done. What is it about the New Year that makes me run to Ulta and Sephora? I seem to always run out of products around the same time, twice a year! How convenient for the stores and inconvenient for my wallet!

Even thought it’s January and freezing in many parts of the country, this doesn’t mean the sun isn’t an issue. Lather up on that SPF, ladies and gents! I prefer some SPF tinted moisturizers that don’t make me dehydrate halfway through the day. Some faves are the Christian Dior BB Creme with SPF and Tarte SPF Tinted Moisturizer.

What are your Wednesday Must Want Clean Beauty Items?

XOXO

TheSocalSocialite

New Dress, New Adventures!

Just wanted to update you all to let you know of the great deal I got on one of my fave sites, reveboutique! As you may know, I am a huge Sky fan and when I can, I travel to their main warehouse on Robertson Blvd. when I’m in LA. Recently, along the lines of Sky, I have discovered Parides, a brand of kaftan-like dresses. I’ve always wanted to get one, and when I was scouring the internet, I realized that reveboutique has a special promo code for 10% off with code “REVE10” (thanks, retailmenot!)

Anyway, the patterns on the dresses are amazing and the fact you can wear the dress 3 different ways sealed the deal. What do you think of my new purchase? Here’s Kyle Richards from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills in a similar pattern (um, can I have the bag too?!) It’s also a motivator since I have lost some weight thanks to all the yoga and pilates I’ve been doing!

Beverly hills housewife in Parides Top Trend Palm print dress

XOXO,

The SocalSocialite

 

The Airbrushed Expectation

To many outsiders, “old-school people” (including my own mother), makeup is seen as superfluous, unnecessary, a waste of time.

If I had a dollar for all the guys during my pre-married life who told me, “You look so much better without makeup”, I would be living in a mansion next to Heather Dubrow in Newport Beach right now. That is not true!! What guys mean is they want you to have makeup. They just don’t want to be able to see it on you (minimal is key, subtle coverage is everything!) Example: Foundation, neutral eyeshadow, maybe mascara.

I am a fan of transformative makeup. During the week, I’m much too busy to put on a full face of makeup. I don’t like doing “minimalist makeup” either – it’s either SPF, or full-on coverage. I am running around (I work for myself) and much too harried to care. I already have the man of my dreams, I’m not out to impress anyone. My makeup routine during the week pretty much consists of SPF 20 Urban Decay tinted moisturizer.

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I want to know why I feel discriminated against shopping in makeup stores for makeup when I love makeup! Maybe I don’t look “pulled together”, but I really know my stuff. Anyone had the experience of going into a department store wearing lounge clothes from Victoria’s Secret and being treated like a poverty-striken homeless bum? I feel a similar way if I go by the department store makeup counter or high-end makeup store. Even Ulta sometimes.

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We need to further educate society in two ways:

1) Guys need to understand that those of us who like getting glammed up and ready to go out is a process. Women are not airbrushed unless they are shooting a magazine cover (or selfie-tastic Kim Kardashian). We are not going to look perfectly polished in two seconds. Ever.

2) Makeup stores really need to train their staff to be nice to everyone, regardless of how much makeup they are or are not wearing. Or to take it a few steps further, regardless of what one looks like.  I have been treated much differently (especially in Sephora) when I come in after working out versus on a date night with my husband. This is unacceptable. How the heck would you know that back home I have a huge stockpile of makeup? When employees are rude or flat out ignore me, I don’t feel like buying anything. Furthermore, it just hurts my feelings. I’m sensitive.

Onwards & upwards,

The SocalSocialite

5 Tips for Making Friends in Your 30’s

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There have been many excuses as one enters the decade of our 30’s as I have regarding why friends can’t seem to keep in touch:

“I’m busy”

“I’m married”

“I work too much”

“I don’t have time for friends”

“I liked your post/pic on Facebook and wish you happy birthday once a year”

Ummm…I’m calling BULLshit on that. I am a true friend and need loyal girls by my side. Yes, I get it – you’re busy, you have a family, demanding job, etc. etc.

I have been “throwing out” friends who do nothing for me after I have wrangled earth, sun, and moon for them. Ain’t nobody got time for that.

Don’t use social media as a crutch! Internet friendships are NOT meant to replace real relationships!

This weekend I had the pleasure of meeting new girlfriends as I showed up only knowing 2 people at my friend’s bachelorette weekend. There was no drama, cattiness, or bickering of any sort. Definitely not what I am used to. Is that a bad thing? I don’t know. Maybe I did have too much on my mind previously to make real friendships. But I came away from the weekend a happy girl. I think I am on the way to having more female friends who care about me in my life, and who are worth having around! 🙂

Top five tips for girls in their 30’s to maintain/make new friendships:

1) Don’t try too hard. If it’s too hard to schedule some event with your friends, perhaps they aren’t worth your time. See if they initiate as well. Friendships should be a positive, simple process. You also don’t have to hover around and try to decode every single conversation. Be natural. Don’t set ridiculous standards for your friends; they are human beings just like you after all. Yes, tough to learn this one, but so worth it!

2) Stay positive. Telling some negative stories are okay in the beginning, but if you are perceived as a Debbie Downer, it may not work out in the long run. When in doubt, give compliments upon meeting a new potential galpal. This may be cheesy, but women love to be complimented. Damn, I thought dating was done for me!

3) Be reliable. If you say you want reliable, responsible, honest friends, be that friend to yourself first and model the behavior for others. Don’t flake!!!

4) Take it easy on the alcohol. Once in awhile, throwing caution to the wind is ok, but try to vary the activities so that you’re not just meeting up for drinks with the ladies every time you go out. Your waistline and fashion will also thank you.

5) Make some plans. Take turn being the hostess or coming up with event ideas. Don’t wait for your friends to initiate all of the ideas.

Onwards & upwards,

 

The SocalSocialite

 

R.I.P Juicy Couture…See You @ Kohl’s??

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So I know this post comes about a month after Juicy closed all of its US stores, but I have been in grieving silence for the past month trying to collect my thoughts.

I am a lady who has 1/4 of her closet arranged by colors of the rainbow (red to black and every gradient in between) of Juicy Tracksuits. #dontjudgemeplease

I am so going to miss their lines of colorful, fun, playful fabrics (terrycloth and velour all day long) and two-piece swimsuits that actually fit me. I think they had a Pinkberry problem – what I mean is too many products, too much expansion…too fast. I mean, my dog was seriously missing their pooch line – okay, I was totally missing their pooch line, no offense to Coach but I’m over them (Coach stuff seems to fall apart on me every other day…bought a purse and used it once, it looks like I’ve taken it through a dryer cycle on full speed).

And as for the new posts out there comparing Juicy to Lululemon, maybe they’re onto something. Maybe the modern woman wants to look classy and put together. Okay, so who says you can’t do that in a Juicy tracksuit? Why do you gotta be all matchy-matchy with it, Paris? I prefer to wear one Juicy item at a time – and heck, even mix and match my outfits.

And yes, I will be venturing out to Kohl’s to check out the new Juicy line — hope it doesn’t turn into a Hard Candy fiasco (I hate setting foot in Walmart)…

 

Onwards & upwards,

 

The Socal Socialite

30% off entire purchase @ Michaels !

So I have really been feeling Pinterest-y lately and have had a go at making my own thank you cards from our Hawaii nuptials last month.

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What do you think??

I bought most of my crafts from Michaels, and saved a ton as well. My total came to over $100 but this coupon knocked it down to $77. I bought stickers, crafts for our upcoming dinner centerpieces, sand, and seashells. Not a bad price including tax, for almost 15 pages of scrapbooking stickers, 3 glass vases, 2 packs of sand and seashells.

I still need a picture frame for our reception, so I’ll be back for that – if I can, I’ll come back before the promo code expires 5/22!!

Onwards,

The SocalSocialite