The Airbrushed Expectation

To many outsiders, “old-school people” (including my own mother), makeup is seen as superfluous, unnecessary, a waste of time.

If I had a dollar for all the guys during my pre-married life who told me, “You look so much better without makeup”, I would be living in a mansion next to Heather Dubrow in Newport Beach right now. That is not true!! What guys mean is they want you to have makeup. They just don’t want to be able to see it on you (minimal is key, subtle coverage is everything!) Example: Foundation, neutral eyeshadow, maybe mascara.

I am a fan of transformative makeup. During the week, I’m much too busy to put on a full face of makeup. I don’t like doing “minimalist makeup” either – it’s either SPF, or full-on coverage. I am running around (I work for myself) and much too harried to care. I already have the man of my dreams, I’m not out to impress anyone. My makeup routine during the week pretty much consists of SPF 20 Urban Decay tinted moisturizer.

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I want to know why I feel discriminated against shopping in makeup stores for makeup when I love makeup! Maybe I don’t look “pulled together”, but I really know my stuff. Anyone had the experience of going into a department store wearing lounge clothes from Victoria’s Secret and being treated like a poverty-striken homeless bum? I feel a similar way if I go by the department store makeup counter or high-end makeup store. Even Ulta sometimes.

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We need to further educate society in two ways:

1) Guys need to understand that those of us who like getting glammed up and ready to go out is a process. Women are not airbrushed unless they are shooting a magazine cover (or selfie-tastic Kim Kardashian). We are not going to look perfectly polished in two seconds. Ever.

2) Makeup stores really need to train their staff to be nice to everyone, regardless of how much makeup they are or are not wearing. Or to take it a few steps further, regardless of what one looks like.  I have been treated much differently (especially in Sephora) when I come in after working out versus on a date night with my husband. This is unacceptable. How the heck would you know that back home I have a huge stockpile of makeup? When employees are rude or flat out ignore me, I don’t feel like buying anything. Furthermore, it just hurts my feelings. I’m sensitive.

Onwards & upwards,

The SocalSocialite

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